I have now brought my blog up-to-date.
Thanks to Niki of HCA Hospice Care who nudged me to work on my blog, otherwise I would still be procrastinating, and then I would have nothing to share as I realised that I am now having trouble recalling stuff.
With my blog up-to-date now, I can concentrate on the other areas that I have neglected.
For one, I am going to finalize my will. It's not that I have tons to leave to my children, but I want to be assured that in the event I am not around, at least, they have a roof over their heads. And also whatever little that I have left over, if any, from my medical expenses.
Secondly, I want to plan my own funeral. I am not being pessimistic. I looked at my husband and children and I fear that if I should drop dead one day, they may not know what to do, like the type of religious ceremony that I want, or what to do with my ashes, or which photo should be used. About photos, I am waiting for my hair to grow long enough so that I can have a few shots that I can choose from, or perhaps I don't have to wait and just make do with the wig that my neighbour has lent to me. I intend to draw up a list of things that needed to be done when the time comes.
This list and the will will be put together with all other important documents, so that when the time comes, all they need to do is get hold of this lot and, voila, everything is there and they don't need to crack their heads.
Another thing to do is spring clean the house and throw out all the junks and whatever skeletons in the cupboards. This is going to save my family a lot of headaches deciding what to throw and what to keep. This is going to be real slow and time consuming as I can't bend, can't squat and can't exert myself now.
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